okay, pop goes my ranting:
why can't those who are in a relationship talk to others e.g FRIENDS.
why is it that people will judge you if you talk to the opposite sex just because you are in a relationship? Why people who are in love often get insecure? Why people said they treasure friendship but it goes downhill once they found their partner?
okay, here's what I think and somehow it work best for me:
1. I think is okay to talk to the opposite sex, as long as you know yourself what status you're in e.g: GF, BF or whatsoever title the partner called you. come on la, insecurities, misunderstandings and opinions, let the couple decide and clear it off on their own.
2. As long as the partner knows who the person you are talking to, it's perfectly FINE! Nothing to hide, right?(oh well, imo. ;p)
3. In a relationship, does not mean that you do not have to communicate at all to the world and live in your own fairy tale world thingy ya know. People needs to communicate to others as our life goes on or we are gonna end up like the guy in I AM LEGEND, LOST OF HUMAN TOUCH. so, issit wrong to talk to the opposite sex?
4. Friends are not meant to be treated good when you are single then dumped them aside once you've found your partner and then run back to them when you're out of love. Well, it is like USING people. I believe eventhough you're in love with your partner, there is a time where you can just spend time with friends. come on people, time management!
5. In a relationship, jealousy is there but how you handle them is another thing. TALK TALK and TALK to your partner. In a relationship, it is much more than just LUST and LOVE. Understanding, Trust, Communication (talk when you don't feel right) and Honesty. With this, i bet you can turn insecurity into security.
why is it that people will judge you if you talk to the opposite sex just because you are in a relationship? Why people who are in love often get insecure? Why people said they treasure friendship but it goes downhill once they found their partner?
okay, here's what I think and somehow it work best for me:
1. I think is okay to talk to the opposite sex, as long as you know yourself what status you're in e.g: GF, BF or whatsoever title the partner called you. come on la, insecurities, misunderstandings and opinions, let the couple decide and clear it off on their own.
2. As long as the partner knows who the person you are talking to, it's perfectly FINE! Nothing to hide, right?(oh well, imo. ;p)
3. In a relationship, does not mean that you do not have to communicate at all to the world and live in your own fairy tale world thingy ya know. People needs to communicate to others as our life goes on or we are gonna end up like the guy in I AM LEGEND, LOST OF HUMAN TOUCH. so, issit wrong to talk to the opposite sex?
4. Friends are not meant to be treated good when you are single then dumped them aside once you've found your partner and then run back to them when you're out of love. Well, it is like USING people. I believe eventhough you're in love with your partner, there is a time where you can just spend time with friends. come on people, time management!
5. In a relationship, jealousy is there but how you handle them is another thing. TALK TALK and TALK to your partner. In a relationship, it is much more than just LUST and LOVE. Understanding, Trust, Communication (talk when you don't feel right) and Honesty. With this, i bet you can turn insecurity into security.
Partners, loving a person is when you have achieve understanding, it is not how much you have control over the person that you get obssess with your GF/BF that you have turned into a monster. Without understanding, no relationship can go far or move a level higher. With Obssession and Possessive, you will lose the one you love dearly. think again?
sigh, to think of it, why do you want to let jealousy and insecurity replace the love that firstly drawn you to your partner?
alright. phewww there goes my steam .. half dead.
I think i'm done for now. ^*(&%^$%^$^%^&
WTH,
nana
sigh, to think of it, why do you want to let jealousy and insecurity replace the love that firstly drawn you to your partner?
alright. phewww there goes my steam .. half dead.
I think i'm done for now. ^*(&%^$%^$^%^&
WTH,
nana
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